Tag: evidential medium

  • I Miss You

    I Miss You

    You don’t need a Medium to get a message from your loved one. You just need to be more present and watch for the signs. They send signs ALL THE TIME. We just don’t notice them. I got a really good example of the signs they send yesterday morning.

    I went for a run and allowed songs to come on at random. I no longer use a specific playlist like I used to. No matter what app you use, this is the best way to let spirit control what you hear. I don’t run with earbuds so I can be aware of what is around me. I keep the music relatively quiet because I don’t want to disturb anyone else that is out walking or running, for the most part it’s just background noise to help keep me going. A song by Miley Cyrus started playing and I would normally skip a song from her, but I decided to just leave it on. I didn’t really pay attention to what it was until I felt my phone vibrate in my hand. I thought it was a text message, but when I looked there was no notification, all I saw was the little square with the title of the song and it said, “I Miss You.” I shut my phone back off and then thought, “Wait, what time is it?” I looked at my phone again and it said 7:12. 7:12 is my Dad’s birthday, July 12. I instantly knew it was him sending me a sweet, simple message.

    If you miss someone and want to communicate with them, think about the numbers or key words that correspond to your loved ones. When you go about your day, pay attention to when you get the urge to look at the time. Do the numbers represent your loved one? When you are driving, if you happen to glance at a license plate, does it mean anything to you? When you hear a song that reminds you of your loved one, look at the time or look around for a sign near you that might be a symbol of them. You would be surprised about the number of times throughout the week you will get little hellos from the other side. 

    If they know you are more aware of what is around you, they will send you even more signs. Think about it. Maybe it’s been years since your loved one has passed. They may have sent you tons of signs after they passed, but you ignored them. So they started sending less signs. They still try every once in a while, but I mean, what’s the point if you aren’t noticing them? But, now you are awake and realize you need to pay attention. You. Will. Get. Signs.

    I know I said you don’t need a Medium, but if you would like a reading, please visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how.

  • Fly Me to the Moon

    Fly Me to the Moon

    I say many times on this website I don’t do things in a typical way as far as Mediumship goes. Most times when I practice with other people I sit through pages of descriptions about my relatives and only a portion of the descriptions make sense and then it’s followed by a message of “Don’t give up” or “They love you very much.” They all read this way. I sit and wait for just one thing that points for sure to my loved ones and they give me a whole list of maybes. I am still not very good at this and I understand that, but I always give at least one thing that I couldn’t possibly know. I think that is worth more than three pages of maybes. One out of every ten Mediums I work with will give me specific evidence and when they do, they usually aren’t the type of Medium to give me three pages of descriptions beforehand. The following is a practice reading I had with a woman who was so unenthused about my reading I couldn’t wait for it to be over for her sake and mine.

    June 30, 2025

    I had a reading in the afternoon with a woman who sounded French. I went first and got several things to which she said she didn’t understand. It was hard for me to even get these things because she kept sighing as I was trying to connect. So I said, let me try with a specific name. She gave me the name Max and I quickly got something about “something going over the side of the boat.” She continued to seem unimpressed and wasn’t sure what that meant. I then heard lyrics from Frank Sinatra’s version of “Fly Me to the Moon.” The lyrics were, “Fly me to the moon, let me play amongst the stars.” She said that the lyrics possibly meant something, but was still unenthused. After the reading, she told me the lyrics could possibly relate to her son who had passed when he was very young. He had a long illness and they spoke to him about being with the stars when he passed to comfort him and they also read a book along the same lines about how when he passed he would be “in the stars.” I couldn’t believe the way she treated me when I gave this information like she wasn’t sure it was relevant. To me that was “evidence” of her son. I believe she treated me this way because I didn’t give a description of her son. I didn’t say, “I see a little boy, he has brown hair, he’s very sweet, etc.”

    Next, I heard “Chesapeake Bay” and she told me that the area near Chesapeake Bay was where she went on a trip with her son. She was still unenthused and I told her I didn’t even know where that bay was. She said it was in Maryland.

    I heard the melody to Frank Sinatra’s song again and then the words “Jupiter and Mars.” She said she was unsure about that as well. I said, “Okay let me see if I can get why he sent it again.” I then got the feeling the year when the song came out was significant. She looked it up and saw that Frank Sinatra’s version of the song came out in 1964. She said, “I know nothing about 1964.” I told her I felt the numbers 6 and 4 were significant and she said, “Oh, my son was four when he passed and he would be 6 right now.” She was still unenthused, but all I could think about was how horrible it was that this woman lost her son when he was so young. I said “I have a couple more minutes, let me try one more time,” and I heard “Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens,” and then “I simply remember my favorite things and then I don’t feel so bad.” She said that doesn’t mean anything to me. I said, “I think it is your son’s message to you, what you should be doing,” because to me it didn’t feel like he was sad or having a hard time in the afterlife. She said, “Possibly.” And with that I ended the session. I was glad to be done. I don’t try to force any opinions on anyone, I just relay the messages.

    If you would like an evidential mediumship reading, I don’t care how unenthused you are, please visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how.

  • Oh Chariot

    Oh Chariot

    I was never quite sure about Mediums. I had never had a reading, but watched them on TV and felt that a lot of them were phony. I never believed John Edward or James Van Praagh. For some reason when I was a child Silvia Browne seemed somewhat real, but not completely. Theresa Caputo sometimes gives me chills when I watch her and I somewhat believe in her as well. In February of this year, I read that anyone can be a Medium, it just takes a lot of hard work and maybe a little natural ability. I decided to find out if that was true. The only way I was going to know for sure that someone can be a medium and connect to the other side was to try it myself, so that’s what I did.

    For starters, I believed I had a slight natural ability. I had always had “visits” in dreams from people who had passed. They felt real and they sent me very important messages sometimes. I missed my loved ones and would dream about them a lot, but the dreams where they would “visit” me were different. They would be in my dream, not speaking a word, but I just knew what they were trying to tell me.

    As a child, I also had a spirit come stand over my bed often. I could feel them, standing over me, looking at me. It scared the hell out of me. I would cover my head until morning. Eventually it stopped. I think I blocked out any and all ability to connect with the dead because I was a chicken.

    I decided to stop being afraid. I read a couple of books and meditated a lot. I read one more that told me to just be still, meditate, and see what came to me for 30 days. I didn’t think I would get much out of it, but, slowly I did. One of the first messages I received was just the lyrics to a song about using God to gain strength and it just spoke to me. It felt like the type of message I would get in my dreams. The song was “Oh Chariot” by Gavin Degraw. A day or two later (I should have written it down) I received a message while I was driving that when I would receive messages I would receive them through lyrics. I wasn’t sure if I should believe it or not, but I spent the rest of my drive thinking about how that would all work out and what would I call myself if I wanted to do this for real? Musical Medium? Lyrical Medium? When I started this website I googled musical medium and apparently there is a woman who went through a similar experience as me (as far as getting messages through music) and she calls herself the Musical Medium. So I decided I would be the Lyrical Medium.

    The last book I read was The Awakened Way: Making the Shift to a Divinely Guided Life by Suzanne Giesemann. I highly suggest this book if you would like to find the truth and connect to your loved ones as well. Suzanne explains everything very well and includes simple practices in the book to help you to connect to the other side.

    As I continued to meditate and really focus on connecting to the other side, my abilities improved. I’ve watched Mediums on TV and they seem to connect so easily and they are given loads of information. This has not been my experience, yet. So far, what I receive has been simple, but the messages are sometimes all the person I am reading needs for validation that their loved one is still around. It sometimes comes to me as a puzzle, but the moment it all comes together I get chills down my spine and sometimes all over my body. I have learned that for me, so far, I usually only receive five or six key words that point to who the person is and/or show that they around the person I am reading and a lyric or two from a song that gives a special message. I feel like I receive a lyric because it can help them express what they have to say in a better way than only just a few words can. Maybe I will receive more when I get better or maybe that is all they can really tell us, that is what I am practicing to find out.

    If you would like to help continue on my journey of finding the truth, please visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how.

  • I’m Henry the VIII, I am

    I’m Henry the VIII, I am

    I want to tell you a sweet story from when I first started letting other people know I was practicing to become a Medium. I did this reading in the same way I would do yours if you would ever like a little bit of evidence that your loved one is still around you. I ask who you want to contact and then I meditate quietly for about 20 minutes when I have time. I write down everything I receive and then send it to you and ask for feedback on whether or not it is relevant. This is an excerpt from my journal:

    April 14, 2025

    I knew I had to keep practicing evidential mediumship so I asked a friend of mine if it would be okay if I tried to communicate with her Mom. She said that was fine, so I tried in the evening and sent her a text letting her know what I received and went to bed. I told her I wasn’t sure if I got a connection or not. At the beginning I heard the soft jingle of a dog collar. Later, I heard the words “King” and “Henry,” and I kept hearing “Henry the VIII, I am” from the song “I’m Henry the VIII, I am” by Herman’s Hermits, but I didn’t know if it was my mind doing that because of the names King and Henry. 

    In the morning she texted me and told me her Mom was in love with the royal family. Her brother got a dog after her Mom died, and named him Henry. Her Mom always thought her brother looked like Prince Harry. He was going to name the dog Harry in memory of his Mom’s love of the royals until he found out Harry’s name is actually Henry. She also told me the sound of a dog collar was probably just an acknowledgment of how much her Mom loved dogs.

    Her feedback made me feel so much better because I thought it was all just nonsense. I had gone to bed thinking that I had failed her and was pretty bummed about it. I never knew that her Mom was so into the royal family. She told me that her Mom watched and read everything she could about the royal family. Queen Elizabeth died soon after her Mom did and she knew that her Mom was going to try to find a way to find her in heaven. She also said that the song “I’m Henry the VIII, I am” would have been a song she would have sung to tease her brother about naming his dog Henry. I saw it all as an acknowledgment that she was still around them and knew what was going on.

    If you would also like a sweet little “hello, I am still here” from your loved one, please visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how.

  • Pleasant Valley Sunday

    Pleasant Valley Sunday

    When I started getting into Mediumship, my sole purpose was to see if it was real. I do believe it is real, but there are a lot of phonies. When I practice with other Mediums they often dismiss me because I don’t do readings in the way that they do. They give me a long list of descriptions about the person they say they are connecting with. I take notes and sometimes it can be pages of descriptions. There are so many that of course some of them make sense, but not enough to say, “Yes! That is definitely (insert name here).” When someone does a reading they need to tell you something relevant that no one would know, not “Your loved one has white hair , glasses and when they crossed over their (insert ailment here) is gone. They love you very much and they watch over you.” I also get a lot of things from Mediums practicing about Grandmothers who love to cook. Surprisingly none of mine did. Grandpas who were in the military. Nope, none of mine either. Not every Grandma loved to cook and not every Grandpa was in the military.

    My short readings that provide key words that point directly to their loved ones and sometimes songs that point directly to what their loved ones would say, or point to who they were are discounted. This is what is so frustrating about entering this world. Most Mediums have had professional training. I am always asked if I have had any. When I say I haven’t, then they tell me I need some. I don’t want to read like them if it is just a long list of descriptions and a guessing game. I just want to deliver exactly what I hear and that is it.

    If you have ever had a loved one who has passed over “visit” you in a dream, you would know it’s pretty quick. They send their love in the only way they know how and might send a quick message or the message might just be how much they love you, but they do it in a clever way. I think it takes a lot of energy for them to do so. I think when they work through a Medium, they can’t sit and have full on conversations with them. And, if they are trying to connect with you, why would they just sit and talk about the description of who they were and what they look like and nothing else? I get that that is needed so that you know who they are, but once you realize, the guessing game shouldn’t continue. Sometimes I do a practice reading with a Medium and the other Medium spends so much time describing my loved one that there never ends up being a message. It is all about them guessing who it is and wanting kudos for getting it right. The guessing game feels more about them needing a confidence boost and less about me connecting to my loved one. It’s not fun. Especially when I just want to hear what my loved one has to say and not that they were dependable or kind to everyone. I already know that!

    I’ll give you an example taken from my journal of one of the worst experiences I have had with another Medium during practice.

    May 22, 2025

    I had a horrible session in the evening. She was apparently in a hurry and I asked if she wanted to go first and she said, “No you go first.” She then told me she had already heard my introduction and it was wonderful and said some BS about all my Clairs and then said, “Wink, wink.” She meant she didn’t want to hear my introduction at all. I explained quickly anyway that I don’t receive messages the same way as others and I usually get lyrics and key words that point to their loved one. She was irritated I did an introduction. I then tried to connect, but she talked the whole time, and I even heard her husband in the background talking to her. Surprisingly, with all of the interruptions and the rushed feelings, I got the name Tom, whom she said was a very dear friend that had passed away. I got lyrics from the song “Pleasant Valley Sunday” by the Monkees. She said that was one of her all time favorite songs. I got specific lyrics, “I need a change of scenery” to which she said she had just been saying those words that very day and the day before that, “she needed a change or scenery and she wanted to move.” I then got the lyric, “And the kids just don’t understand.” She laughed in amazement and said, “Yes, that makes sense,” but never told me why. She seemed in such a hurry, and I wasn’t really getting anything else so I said, “I think I’ll end my turn now.” She got irritated with me and told me to keep going. So I kept going and it was about 30 seconds of silence when she said, “You keep going, I am going to start connecting.” She started saying all these weird things, sometimes in a different language that sounded satanic. I thought she was American, but I don’t know. She asked if she could have the lights off and I said that was fine. She shut the lights off, it went dark and then suddenly there was a blood red glow coming from her side. I stopped what I was doing and she began to tell me a whole lot of nonsense about people who were supposedly there for me. Absolutely nothing made sense. The more I told her it didn’t, the angrier she became. She told me she ate too much, she is usually very good and she’s been doing readings for ten years. She then told me I needed to try again, but with my eyes open. I told her I just don’t do it that way, but she insisted, so I tried. After a minute or two, I said I think I lost the communicator, I am just not getting anything. That is when she started angrily telling me that spirit never goes away and spirit never stops communicating. I tried to explain that I was new at this and that is when she lost it. She started ranting about how spirit never stops communicating and I have to keep my eyes open to see them and I need to be looking up because that is where they are! Then she said, “I have to go, I have another session!” She closed the zoom link in the same way you might angrily hang up on someone. It was the strangest experience I have had so far and I wondered if she was drunk or something. It seemed like what really set her off was when she found out that I was new and had given her somewhat specific messages (albeit short) and she, after ten years of practice, gave me a whole bunch of nothing.

    So I will end with this, if you would like a short, unusual reading from me, visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how. Aren’t you curious about what song they will send you?

  • Queen of My Double Wide Trailer

    Queen of My Double Wide Trailer

    I get a lot of messages through music from spirit. I don’t always have to be meditating. I just need to be doing a mundane task that takes my mind off of things. My mind has to be clear and not clouded with a bunch of the typical thoughts we all get throughout the day. Sometimes I get the music directly in my head and other times I get it through the music on the radio in my car or from my phone when I have iTunes on shuffle. I do this so that my music can be controlled by spirit. I don’t know how or why, but they seem to be able to control energy like lights, radios, televisions, computers, phones, etc. Pay attention to the music you hear. If you repeatedly hear a song, it may be a message the spirit world is trying to communicate with you or you may hear a song in response to a problem you are currently trying to work through in your life.

    My Dad is so clever when he comes to visit me. I went for a run this morning and during the run I heard an old song that I had downloaded a few years back because it was a song he liked and it made me think of him. Towards the end of my run I heard another old song that always makes me think of him as well and I realized he was saying, “Hi” and letting me know that he was around. I said (in my head) “Hey, I know I shouldn’t ask, but if you can, can you make the next song something that will tell me it’s you?” The starting melody of “Queen of My Double Wide Trailer “ by Sammy Kershaw came on and I thought, “Okay, bummer, it’s not him.” But then, I heard the first lyric and realized it WAS him. The lyric was, “Well I met her out at Murphy’s Restaurant, she said she was fresh from the farm.” That was a direct reference to him and my Mom meeting. They met pretty soon after she had moved to Omaha. It wasn’t a restaurant, but she was literally “fresh from the farm.” The wonderful feeling I get from these clever little messages is priceless. I just want to give other people that feeling too!

    If you would like a sweet little hello or message from your loved one, please visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how. It will not be like a typical reading, but hopefully it will bring you a smile and a little bit of happiness which is what we all need right now.

  • Stuck Like Glue

    Stuck Like Glue

    I want to share with you my first experience on VerySoul. I had been practicing on my own and contacting relatives of friends or my own relatives. You really aren’t supposed to connect with your relatives all the time. If you did, you wouldn’t do anything meaningful with your life or your talents as a Medium. Mediumship is about working for the greater good and making the world a better place, so there must be a purpose for why you are connecting with the other side, other than that you miss your Dad or whoever else is on the other side. When I practice on VerySoul, the purpose is to learn how to connect and to get better so that someday you can give meaningful messages to someone who is grieving and hopefully you can help to take away some of their pain and sadness.

    The following is an account of what happened the first time I practiced with VerySoul. This was taken out of my journal. The spirit connection actually started the day before.

    April 29, 2025

    I tried contacting my Uncle. I wasn’t sure if I could connect with him or not because I think spirit wants me to stop contacting all my relatives, but I need to practice so I asked and tried anyway. I didn’t get much – Cadillac, Kookaburra, youngest son, chili, ketchup, frankfurters, and the song “Blame It On the Rain” by Milli Vanilli. The main lyric I heard was, “Whatever you do don’t put the blame on you.” My Mom didn’t seem to think anything matched up. I googled Kookaburra and the only thing that came up was that it was a bird from Australia. I wondered if that was a sign that one of the people I would read next through VerySoul would be from Australia.

    April 30, 2025

    I did my reading on VerySoul with a woman who had been doing readings for about 13 years. She connected with my Dad and told me a lot of things, but the one thing that got me emotional was when she told me my Dad wanted me to keep working at what I was doing. To not give up and to not doubt myself. I am positive this was in reference to trying to become a medium.

    When it was my turn I told her I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to even get anything, but I would try. I closed my eyes and tried to silence my mind and felt silly doing this in front of someone else. After a few awkward moments of silence I got the word Canberra. I asked if that was anything and she said, “Yes.” I started seeing very bright, very fast flashes of light, I asked if that meant anything and she said she was unsure. It was so bright it felt like a strobe light. I moved on and after a few more awkward moments of silence I heard “stuck like glue,” and told her. She said it made perfect sense. It was from the song “Stuck Like Glue” by Sugarland. When I was done with the reading she told me that Canberra was a state in Australia (where she is from). She also told me “Stuck Like Glue” was in reference to the day before when she realized that her ex was “stuck on her.” Her 2 year old son was at her ex’s house, they were on FaceTime and she noticed behind him there were still pictures of her and her ex on the wall even though he was in a new relationship. She said she worried he would be moving away and she had a feeling he was going to tell her he would be moving to Canberra. I got chills up my spine when I realized what I told her was correct and also because I realized that she must have been who Kookaburra was about and all the other words from the night before. So I asked about the words Cadillac, Kookaburra, youngest son, chili, the song “Blame It On the Rain” by Milli Vanilli, ketchup and frankfurters. She never told me if Cadillac had any meaning or not. We both agreed Kookaburra must have been the sign for Australia. Youngest son probably meant her son. Chili was actually for Chilli, a character from the cartoon Bluey. She said her son had been trying to say that character’s name over and over for the past several days. He also loved to eat frankfurters/hot dogs with ketchup. The song “Blame It On the Rain” was also in reference to her ex. The specific lyric I had heard was, “Whatever you do, don’t put the blame on you.” She said her ex blames everything on her, and I said I feel like that it must have been a message from her loved one (whoever it was) that she shouldn’t blame herself.

    I was thrilled that I was actually able to connect in person (via Zoom) and that the night before turned out to be an even better message. The other Medium told me she thought right now I had more psychic ability than medium ability. That was fine with me. I was in such disbelief and also thrilled to have any ability. It was like I had won the lottery. I now knew for sure I had the ability, I just needed to work hard and get better at it.

    If you would like a free reading, please visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how.

  • We’re Off to See the Wizard

    We’re Off to See the Wizard

    One of my favorite practice readings was with a woman who had lost her seven year old son and her Dad. When I started the reading, I kept seeing the outline of a fish that I believed to be from the movie Finding Nemo. I saw sand and an ocean and other things. I wasn’t sure if these visions were really for her because the woman had talked about the ocean in relation to my loved one when she practiced on me, so I said, “I don’t know if this is right because you were talking about the ocean, but I feel like I am getting the fish from that movie with Dory (I couldn’t remember the name of the movie). She instantly knew what I was talking about and laughed a little and said, “Yes.” She told me after the reading that she always says, “Just keep swimming” to her kids and even though they are grown up now, she had actually just said that the day before. This was her favorite quote from Finding Nemo. I got “sandpaper” and “woodworking” and she said those didn’t mean anything to her, but she would think about it. 

    I started hearing, “Because, because, because, because, because, because of the wonderful things he does,” from the song “We’re Off to See the Wizard” by Judy Garland from the movie, The Wizard of Oz and I pictured the four characters skipping down the yellow brick road. This made her laugh again and she said, “My favorite movie is The Wizard of Oz!” I got “greenery” and “race car” and she said those pointed in the direction of her son and her Dad. She told me green was her son’s favorite color, and I forgot what race care meant. I got “Don’t give up” and she said her Dad had that phrase on a picture frame on his mantle. I asked if they wanted to give me one more lyric or message and I heard, “Everybody Was Kung Fu Fighting” by Carl Douglas. That made us both laugh so hard. She said that was a reference to her watching Kung Fu Panda with her son.

    When I had given my introduction, I told her that I will get a few words and maybe some song lyrics. She said at that moment she thought, “I don’t know music, how are they going to give me lyrics?” She thought it was so neat that they came through with lyrics and messages that she would know from movies that she had watched. It was such a fun and joyful reading. What I really liked about the reading was the way it felt as if her Dad and her son were there together, joking around and sending lyrics to see if they could make her laugh, and she did! She said at the end of our reading that she thought I had a beautiful approach. Part of her official feedback was, “Thank you for connecting with my Dad and son. I loved how you brought them through in such a fun way. I keep laughing when I think of them bringing through Nemo/Dory and The Wizard of Oz. I loved that you made the session so much fun! Well done!” I was just thrilled to give someone a good, happy reading. That’s all I want, to make people feel better. I just hope I can continue to do so.

    If you would like a reading, please visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how.

  • Ring of Fire

    Ring of Fire

    I keep a journal of my Mediumship journey to keep track of my progress. I’d like to share with you excerpts from two days in May that explain a little bit about the type of messages I get and all the doubt I have in myself and my abilities.

    May 10, 2025

    I am so excited about all of this spirit world stuff that I forget that other people think it’s a joke and not real. I had read for a friend of mine and got a little bit from his Mother. I thought he actually took me seriously because he asked me later to read for his Grandpa. But, it was all a joke and a waste of time. I got somebody, I am not sure who. I asked how they died and they said, “Heart attack.” I asked what they did or liked doing and they said, “Scuba dive and army.” I also got the words “team leader” “Bailey” and “Buick LeSabre.” I got “camping” and “fishing” when I asked what he did with his grandson. I then got “Budweiser” and the song “Ring of Fire” by Johnny Cash. When I told my friend what I got, he responded by saying, “That’s amazing because he was friends with Johnny Cash.” He didn’t say anything else. My heart sank when I read that because I knew right then he didn’t take me seriously at all. I googled my friend’s name and tried to find a Nickolas that might be related to him. I didn’t find anyone named Nickolas. I shouldn’t have, but I responded, “Thanks for making me feel like shit” and then I told him off.

    May 11, 2025

    I could delete part of yesterday’s journal and make myself sound better, but I am not going to. I was wrong about my friend making fun of me. I want my response to my friend to show how much doubt goes on in my head while trying to enter this world of evidential mediumship. If I have even the tiniest seed of doubt I take it and run with it. My friend texted me after I told him off for making fun of me and said, “I did not take it as a joke. My Grandpa owned a bar across the street from the music hall and Johnny Cash would come into his bar when he was in town and they developed a friendship over the years. 100% true story.” I apologized and said, “I just thought you were making fun of me. I am such an asshole.” He said, “I was not making fun of you. I was amazed by the Johnny Cash reference because apparently I met him too, but I was a toddler.” He also told me that the name Bailey was his cousin’s daughter that was killed in an ATV accident. He talked to his Dad and his Dad told him that his Grandpa also always owned older Buicks. His Grandpa was also in the army. I felt foolish, but again it was a good lesson for me to believe in myself and also to trust that others might also believe me. Even if they are few and far between.

    If you would like a free reading, please visit my Evidential Mediumship Readings page to find out how. I promise I won’t tell you off.

  • I’ll Be There For You

    I’ll Be There For You

    It’s a lonely world when you decide you want to become a Medium.The stigma against Mediumship varies from country to country, but in the US it is typically frowned upon. I used to love watching shows like Long Island Medium with Teresa Caputo. I thought because her shows were so popular that it was more accepted now, but clearly it is not. I have been keeping this journey for the most part to myself, but I have reached out to a few people to ask if they wanted to be volunteers for VerySoul. This was not for me to read them, it was for them to be read by a practicing Medium who would have had more practice than me. I tried 13 times and only one person was excited about it, but they never ended up doing it, two said they would do it, but I don’t think they did, eight people left me unread, one told me that’s just not something they are comfortable with (I appreciated their honesty), and one flat out told me off. So I am keeping my name off of this website and no longer contacting anyone I know.

    I started this journey just to see if it was real. I had heard that ANYONE can connect with spirit if they devoted their time to it and practiced with the intention of the greater good. I had always had an intense and accurate intuition. People I loved that had passed away came to me in dreams with information to pass on to the living and it was always accurate and things I shouldn’t have known. I had premonition dreams that came true. So I tried meditating like I have never meditated before. I was able to quiet my mind and be still. Spirit slowly gave me messages over time, and then started to give me messages during my morning run or while I was driving. It seems as though while you are busy with a mundane task, your mind is clear enough to receive messages as well. You train for Mediumship just as you would train for a half marathon or any other sport. It’s like improving your strength and talent, the more you practice, the longer you can quiet your mind, the more information you can get. I am still practicing and in the early stages, but I do get little hellos and what I like to call “winks” from the other side. It’s always somewhat of a puzzle, but I get something and it’s only something that person would know. Nothing I could google.

    Here is an example of what I do get from my journal. I am keeping a journal to keep track of my progress. This was from a live practice session with another Medium on VerySoul.

    I had a practice session with a woman from Australia. She was nice to work with, but said she was in a bit of a hurry, so we tried not to talk too much and just jump right in. I went first and the song by Bon Jovi I had heard the other day came into my head again. Honestly, taco salad came in before that, but I just left that. It seemed very American and I thought it probably wasn’t anything. I asked her if she had a birthday recently and she said, “No.” I then asked if the song “I’ll Be There for You” by Bon Jovi meant anything to her. She said, “Yes it does,” and explained that “I’ll Be There for You” pointed to her sister’s addiction to the TV show Friends because the theme song from Friends is also “I’ll Be There for You.” She said that Bon Jovi was someone they watched constantly on TV when they were younger and she thought it was so clever how her sister brought the two together. She said every time her sister comes through during a reading she brings up Friends. She then asked for the specific lyrics I heard, they were:

    I wasn’t there when you were happy

    (I wasn’t there to make you happy)

    And I wasn’t there when you were down, down

    Didn’t mean to miss your birthday, baby

    I wish I had seen you blow those candles out

    She teared up and she said she couldn’t believe how there could be “so many layers” to these lyrics. She said there was a birthday recently, but it wasn’t hers. She said her family had recently celebrated her Father and Brother’s birthdays over the weekend. I can’t remember who went first, but one blew candles out on the cake and then they re-lit them and then the other person blew out the candles. She said in that moment she thought about how she wished her sister could have been there and wondered if she was there in spirit. She said she felt strongly that her sister was sending a message telling her that she was in fact at the birthday party. She said her sister loved parties and she never missed one when she was alive.

    I will just end with that. If you would like me to try to get a hello or a wink from your relative, please email me at lyricalmedium@gmail.com. Only give me your first name and the first name of the person you would like to connect with. I will try to connect when I have time and will email you back the results. I only ask that you tell them in your head or out loud that you would like them to deliver you a message through me. This is not a party trick, please don’t ask them to send yo a specific song or lyric, it just doesn’t work that way (I have tried with a few relatives who are accepting of my journey and it just doesn’t work). They only give me something they want to tell you, not the other way around. After I send you what I received, please let me know if anything I got for you had any relevance to your life or the person I connected with. Sometimes they only send things validating that they have been around you, other times they send messages of love in unique ways. Please understand this is not in any way demonic. This is strictly working in white light and love. It is with a higher power that is around us everyday. You can call that higher power whatever you want, I call it God.